Of course not!! When evaluating anything for your own children you should review it first hand! Even within our own close knit family, opinions differ on what is and\/or would be appropriate for one’s children.<\/p>\n
Let me tell you a story. Full disclosure here. When my oldest daughter was going on a date with her, then boyfriend, now husband, I made the grand mistake of suggesting a movie I had not seen. They were both in their twenties, almost graduated from college. I was making the recommendation based upon the director and a trailer and thought – they’re big people,\u00a0this group makes fun movies, what could be the harm?\u00a0It was their first movie together. And let’s just say it was —– memorable. Neither of them would consider themselves prudish but the movie was so filled with raunchy sexual humor that even they were embarrassed. I was, of course, horrified and am still needled about this poor choice to this day. I\u00a0won’t tell you the name because I don’t want to give it ANY kind of endorsement, even\u00a0from curiosity or some kind of reverse psychology. Suffice it to say — don’t assume every movie will be good even from a director\/writer whose work you have seen before.<\/p>\n
So – moral to the story — when I suggest something, while I can\u00a0assure you, I HAVE seen it, before passing along\u00a0the recommendation or showing it to your children, YOU SHOULD SEE IT FIRST!<\/p>\n
My memory for films is quite good.\u00a0Family members know better than to bet against me on movie trivia and my husband has only bested me ONCE in 37 years on ONE question, and I am kind of\u00a0the family\u00a0walking film encyclopedia. However, knowledge isn’t wisdom.\u00a0I might forget or neglect to mention some detail that could be important to you. Or maybe I saw it BC – before children – or without the children and was not, at that time, being as attentive as I might otherwise have been about language or dialogue content. Or there could be something in the movie that could be a specific hot point for your family or for a particular child.<\/p>\n
MINOR SPOILERS<\/p>\n
For example, Poltergeist<\/em> (the original 1982 one – haven’t seen the new version) has a really scary scene with a clown doll. In\u00a0Disney’s The<\/em> Little Mermaid<\/em>, Ariel’s father, frightened for his daughter and angry she has been concealing trinkets from the world of people who killed his wife\/her mother destroys a room with all of Ariel’s most precious possessions. In Lord of the Rings<\/em> some of the Orcs EAT each other.<\/p>\n While every movie needs an antagonist – be it human or other – and family conflict often will move a\u00a0plot along, you might not mind a roller coaster scare for a child, but you don’t want them up with nightmares for a week, or shunning a family member because of a movie they saw. And only you would know – or should know – what your child could\/should watch.<\/p>\n So – trust me? No. Trust your own judgment. But even then, as President Reagan said – “Trust but verify”.\u00a0And I hope these articles help give you the tools to do just that.<\/p>\n 6-5-15<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Of course not!! When evaluating anything for your own children you should review it first hand! Even within our own close knit family, opinions differ on what is and\/or would be appropriate for one’s children. Let me tell you a story. Full disclosure here. When my oldest daughter was going on a date with her, … Continue reading Should You Trust Me?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[7,51,53,6,52,75],"class_list":["post-25","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-homeschool","tag-little-mermaid","tag-lord-of-the-rings","tag-movies","tag-poltergeist","tag-spoilers"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6mhKV-p","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.homeschoolmommoviemavin.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.homeschoolmommoviemavin.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.homeschoolmommoviemavin.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.homeschoolmommoviemavin.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.homeschoolmommoviemavin.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.homeschoolmommoviemavin.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26,"href":"http:\/\/www.homeschoolmommoviemavin.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25\/revisions\/26"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.homeschoolmommoviemavin.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.homeschoolmommoviemavin.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.homeschoolmommoviemavin.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}